The unplugged ceremony thing is such a personal preference! I know some photographers feel so strongly about hating guests holding cell phones everywhere as they shoot the ceremony, but honestly, IMO, it is a part of life. Those people do that bc they love you and want to document the day too….so honestly I don’t think it’s such a big deal! However I’d STRONGLY encourage you to remind your immediate family that they will have access to your photographer images so they don’t have phones in there face during the ceremony! I have had moms of brides with big ipads in front of their faces and that is just sad. We want to document their emotions during this special time and they should be totally in the moment with not a care in the world about taking snaps or videos!